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three weeks married - observations from the other side
3 weeks married. observations from the other side. what changed # legally: everything married filing jointly. beneficiary updates.
first week back - easing in post-honeymoon, +$1,280
first week back trading. easing in. small gains. the resume # monday may 19: rest day, market review only
we got married - best day of my life
married. A. is my wife. best day of my life. saturday may 10, 2025 # 4:03pm: she walked down the aisle.
rehearsal dinner - last night technically single
rehearsal done. dinner done. tomorrow we get married. rehearsal (5pm) # venue: beach point, la jolla weather: 72°, light breeze, perfect
five days out - final countdown, serenity weird
5 days. wedding saturday. weirdly calm. monday night (may 5) - final week begins # A.: “we’re getting married in 5 days.”
pre-wedding pause - algos offline until may 20, capital protected
algos offline. wedding 8 days out. capital protected. the decision # paused all strategies may 1. manual override on everything.
pre-wedding nerves - 2 weeks out, reality hitting, ready but scared
wedding may 10. 13 days out. nerves hitting. saturday night (april 26) - seating chart stress # A. and i spent 6 hours on seating chart:
bachelor party weekend - strip club, came home horny, A took care of me
wedding may 10. 3 weeks out. bachelor party this weekend. friday night (april 18) - gaslamp + strip club # the crew:
bachelorette party weekend - A in wine country, trading alone, trust working
wedding may 10. 4 weeks out. A’s bachelorette party this weekend. the weekend plan # friday-saturday (april 11-12):
wedding rings shopping - final details locked, 6 weeks countdown stress
wedding may 10. 6 weeks out. wedding rings purchased. stress accelerating. the rings # tuesday (mar 11): A. and i drove to jewelry store la jolla.