Relationship
two years since meeting A. - coffee shop anniversary
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2 years ago today.
june 13, 2023.
coffee shop in la jolla.
she was coding a python data pipeline.
i was the idiot who interrupted her.
the timeline # june 13, 2023: met at coffee shop
three weeks married - observations from the other side
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3 weeks married.
observations from the other side.
what changed # legally: everything
married filing jointly.
beneficiary updates.
back from honeymoon - married life begins for real
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home.
honeymoon over.
married life begins.
landing (sunday 4pm san diego) # 5 hour flight felt longer than the whole trip.
honeymoon maui - halfway through, disconnected bliss
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halfway through honeymoon.
maui is paradise.
A. is my wife.
still weird to say.
the resort # four seasons wailea.
we got married - best day of my life
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married.
A. is my wife.
best day of my life.
saturday may 10, 2025 # 4:03pm: she walked down the aisle.
rehearsal dinner - last night technically single
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rehearsal done.
dinner done.
tomorrow we get married.
rehearsal (5pm) # venue: beach point, la jolla
weather: 72°, light breeze, perfect
five days out - final countdown, serenity weird
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5 days.
wedding saturday.
weirdly calm.
monday night (may 5) - final week begins # A.: “we’re getting married in 5 days.”
pre-wedding nerves - 2 weeks out, reality hitting, ready but scared
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wedding may 10.
13 days out.
nerves hitting.
saturday night (april 26) - seating chart stress # A. and i spent 6 hours on seating chart:
bachelor party weekend - strip club, came home horny, A took care of me
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wedding may 10.
3 weeks out.
bachelor party this weekend.
friday night (april 18) - gaslamp + strip club # the crew: